Thursday, August 13, 2015

David Hazen Johnston: October 4, 1987 to August 12, 2015



            David Hazen Johnston died of leukemia on August 12, 2015, at age 27, in Lexington, Massachusetts. David was born October 4, 1987, in Manchester, New Hampshire. Surviving David are his father and mother, James Cannon Johnston and Mary Hazen Johnston of Lexington, Massachusetts; sister Rachel Johnston Rodriguez of New York City; brother Peter Hazen Johnston and his wife Xiomara Henriquez Johnston and their children Andrew Henriquez Johnston and Victoria Henriquez Johnston of New York City; brother Matthew Hazen Johnston of Chicago, Illinois; sister Anne Hazen Johnston of Madison, Wisconsin; brother Samuel Hazen Johnston and his wife Savannah Eccles Johnston of Hawthorne, California; and grandmother Charlotte Cannon Johnston of Chicago, Illinois, and Shelley, Idaho.
            David was four when the family moved from Manchester to Lexington. He attended Fiske Elementary School, Diamond Middle School, and Lexington High School, where he graduated in 2006. He worked in Philadelphia public schools with City Year, served as a full-time Mormon missionary for two years in Colorado and Oklahoma, attended Haverford College for one year, and then joined the U.S. Army as an enlisted soldier in 2011. He trained as a medic and was stationed at Fort Hood, Texas.
            While on a tour of duty in South Korea, he was diagnosed in March 2014 at St. Mary’s Hospital in Seoul with acute myeloid leukemia. He was treated at Walter Reed in Bethesda, Maryland, for two months and then for 15 months at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston. He received and was grateful for competent and sympathetic care from doctors, nurses, and technicians at these hospitals. His family members feel enormous gratitude for the care David received.
            David was an active, committed member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. His patience, wisdom, and perspective throughout his ordeal made him a great teacher to all. David and his family have been sustained by the love and support from their local congregation, the Arlington Ward.

            Visiting hours will be at Jim and Mary Johnston’s home at 80 Bedford Street, Lexington, Massachusetts, on Sunday, August 16, 2015, from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m.
David’s funeral will be at the Belmont Chapel, 15 Ledgewood Place, Belmont, Massachusetts, from 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Dinner will follow.
David has donated his body for medical education and research, so burial will be some months hence, at Westview Cemetery, Lexington, Massachusetts.


Donations
Donations in David’s memory can be made to University of Massachusetts Medical School at https://w3.umassmed.edu/onlinedonation/. Please specify Cancer (Leukemia/Lymphoma). Flowers can be delivered to our home on Friday or Saturday. We expect to organize a blood drive at the Belmont Chapel in memory of David.


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48 comments:

  1. Jim, Mary and family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept my condolences, thoughts and prayers. When I lost my grandpa a couple of years ago a friend shared the traditional Jewish words of condolence, "may his memory be a blessing." Though simple, I found it to be a very comforting sentiment. I share it with you now in hopes that it is both appropriate and helpful.

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  2. Mary-you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I was sobered to hear this news this morning. David was great-I was so inspired by his faith and commitment to good.

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  3. I only knew David for a brief time, but he was a kind and gentle person. I'm so sorry for your loss. There will be great joy in the resurrection.

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  4. Words cannot suffice at a time like this. Please accept my deepest condolences, and my heartfelt prayers for you, Jim, and all your family.

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  5. Nancy and I send our love and condolences to you, Jim and Mary, and your family. You've been such stalwarts through all the months with David's illness, and yet we know the ending is difficult. You're in our prayers; may this time of commemorating David's life be holy and uplifting.

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  6. Mary, I'm so sorry. I don't know any good words. I just wish I was close enough for a hug. Your family was so kind to me during my stay in the Arlington Ward. I'll forever be grateful for including me in the Advent that year. Your children treated me like an adopted aunt. I was pleased to read about the life that David had chosen to lead. I can't imagine how much you will miss him. I hope that you will not be short on human as well as heavenly arms to provide comfort and support.

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  7. You and your family is the picture of faith and steadfastness throughout the course of David's illness. We are thinking and praying for you.

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  8. We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers go out to your family.
    Louise and Ken

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  9. Dear Mary and family, I would like to echo Louise, her husband, and Mark K-R...my sympathy and prayers for your beloved son, and for all of you who will miss him. May you be comforted knowing he is with our loving Savior......Dinah Thiers and Jim Farrington

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  10. So sorry for your loss; though I believe David is now "Further up, and Farther in", as they shouted in the end of the book The Last Battle by C.S. Lewis. At the end of the silver chair Caspian, who Eustace knew as a youth, then as an old, old man arises from the River of Living Water, and Eustace asks Aslan, "But wasn't he dead?" and Aslan says that Caspian was dead, and that He, Aslan, had died once too...and as Aslan shakes his mane, and sheds golden light, it is clear that in the Sunlit Lands, there is no more death.

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  11. I'm sorry for your loss too. I remember him when I was little. He came with us to what I believe was a stake conference and we sang a song that had a line - apples and bananas. Then you change for each vowel and sing it differently. When I think of Dave Johnston, that's one of my main memories.

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  12. I have several memories of Dave from our family reunions, but the ones that stand out the most are of Dave playing with his younger cousins and how much enjoyment they got out of that. I remember Dave walking crouched behind Brigham as Brigham learned how to walk during our Christmas family reunion at the Kenwood house. Brigham was grasping Dave's fingers and Dave slowly walked behind him around and around the house. He was not preoccupied about how uncomfortable he was crouching for so long or how wondering if Brigham was ever going to let go of his fingers. Dave was having fun and taking joy in the fact Brigham was learning how to toddle about. That was really sweet of Dave. I love you guys. I appreciate so much that even during this difficult time I have become closer to you and Jim.

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  13. I am so very sorry for your loss.

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  14. I am so very sorry for your loss.

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  15. I am so very sorry for your loss.

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  16. Our hearts are broken.

    Some favorite memories of David...

    2015 Dollhouse photography- baby Cece was transfixed and horrified by his beard, which David took as a challenge and then proceeded to try to sweetly coax her into trusting him for the next 15 minutes. It didn't work, but we had a good chuckle over her stubbornness and facial hair aversion.

    2014 Advent- aswarmed by the little girls (Ivy and Finley) who were anxious for his attention and book-reading abilities. He could have easily escaped the scene, but was so kind and patient with them as they battered him with request after request.

    2010 Ward Campout- a group of us were getting together a pickup soccer game. We needed a few more players, and it took a bit of coercing to get David to come play. However, once on the field he surprised us with his skill and competitiveness.

    2005 (ish?) Advent- the infamous "We Three Kings" rendition by Sam, Annie, and David. Enough said.

    2002 Church- on one of our first Sundays in the Arlington Ward, I caught sight of 14 year-old David- dark hair covering his forehead and bespectacled (and much shorter!), and I turned to Peter and whispered, "Harry Potter is passing the Sacrament." Little did I know that we would both find a friend in this quiet, mathematically-minded, deep thinking, gentle soul. We will miss him enormously.

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  17. Mary and Jim,
    We are sad for the loss of your David. You are in our thoughts and prayers. He has returned home and is free of pain. What a joyous reunion awaits you! We hope that your family will feel the comfort and peace that the Spirit brings.
    All of our love,
    Greg and Carolyn Thompson Family

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  18. David is sweet and kind and loving and gentle. As I grow older I've come to value these traits more and more; it's impressive that David learned to value them in his youth. I greatly enjoyed the time I recently spent with David. He very patiently told me all about his time and experiences in the military and in Korea, and enthusiastically told me about what he was reading and his fondness for science fiction - we shared affection for the Star Trek TV shows although naturally I preferred the older series while he preferred the newer ones. David reminds me of a treasured line from a song: "It takes strength to be gentle and kind." David showed his strength and character in the honest and courageous way way he faced his health challenges. I miss him. "'Till We Meet Again!"

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  19. Jim, Mary, and family, our hearts are aching for you after David's passing. We can't imagine what you are feeling, but we pray that each you will be comforted and uplifted by the Lord at this time of loss and sadness. Thank you for your example of faith and courage in the face of heavy trials. We send our love. - Romney and Alecia Williams

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  20. Jim, Mary, and family, our hearts are aching for you after David's passing. We can't imagine what you are feeling, but we pray that each you will be comforted and uplifted by the Lord at this time of loss and sadness. Thank you for your example of faith and courage in the face of heavy trials. We send our love. - Romney and Alecia Williams

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  21. Dear Mary,
    I remember you from Bryn Mawr as a lovely person. I'm sure that the family that you have created with your husband reflects your loving and appreciative nature. So sorry to hear about this horrendous loss. The pain from David's passing may never disappear. However, over time, I hope that the acuteness of that pain will recede and be replaced by the memories of time spent together.
    Love, Rick Rybeck

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  22. Mary, please know that you have been loved and prayed for not only be your local Arlington Ward congregation, but by your Arlington Ward friends from afar. I am so grateful you allowed us to grow in love for you and David and motherhood and family and anguish of heart through your blog. Thank you. I am grateful and inspired to read that David donated his body for research. That seems very much like a Johnston thing to do--thoughtful about each step, to the end. Well done, though good and faithful mother. May peace come in the most lonesome moments of the months to come.

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  23. Dear Mary
    Your courage, and faith in such sorrow is an inspiration to me. I’m sorry for your loss and wish there were words that could fill the hole in your heart, and diminish the grief you are feeling. Perhaps “Grandma" comes close. There are even moments of joy in this time of sorrow.
    Dennis

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  24. Dear Mary and Jim,
    Our hearts ache for you. We send our love and prayers to you and your whole family. Thank you for courageously sharing the journey through your blog, Mary. Your family has always exemplified such love, courage, honesty, and faith. You are an inspiration to us and we love you dearly.
    Shelley and John.

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  25. Dear Mary,
    My heart is hurting for you today. I'm so sorry for your loss and everything you've had to struggle through to this point. I believe that someday - if not now - you will see the experience as a privilege intended only to add to your joy. It's sure not going to feel like that most days, though.

    I hope we have many more walks together in our future, and I hope you're able to feel some peace in the next few days and months to come. I love you, sister.

    Kimberly

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  26. We love your family and you continue to be a light for us including watching your examples throughout David's illness. You are in our prayers, we pray for you and are so grateful for you.

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  27. Dear Jim and Mary,
    We are so sad after hearing of David's passing. Even though it was expected we know what a difficult time this is for your family. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. We have been so inspired by David's faith and courage and patience in dealing with his illness. May you find peace and comfort in the joyful memories you have of him. We are currently in Utah and very sorry we won't be there for David's funeral. Love to you all!
    Ron and Linda

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  28. Ma'am,

    My name is Sergeant Warren Thompson with 1-12 CAV. I served with David as a medic at Fort Hood and in South Korea. We are all saddened by David's passing and wish to offer our condolences to his family and loved ones. A representative from the unit will be at the funeral on Sunday. If possible please contact me at warrentnt@gmail.com or by cell at 214-233-5707.

    Deepest sympathy and warmest regards,

    SGT Thompson

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  29. Dear Jim and Mary and family

    My heart is breaking for you and your family now. My prayers and loving thoughts are extended to you all.

    Love
    Lori Lyn

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  30. Dear Aunt Mary and Uncle Jim,

    So sorry to hear of David's passing. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Jenn

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  31. I was glad to meet David at Peter and Xiomara's wedding, and glad he got a chance to go to Haverford. Will be thinking of you on the 16th. My mom gave her body to medicine too. Much love, Winnie

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  32. Terrible news - please accept my deepest condolences. I served as David's battalion commander at Fort Hood, and in Korea when this horrible diagnosis was discovered in Seoul. David was an absolute standout not only as a soldier and a medic, but as a human being. His passing is a huge loss not only to our unit and the Army, but to me personally. May the Lord bless you and help you heal during this tragic time.

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  33. Love and condolences from the Crawford family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    Chris and Kim

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  34. Dear Jim and Mary,

    Sending all of our love. We will continue praying for you. Please know that we love you and our hearts are with you.

    My most cherished memory with David was seeing him in Philadelphia at the broadcast of the priesthood session of General Conference. I was far from home, and it was comforting to see a familiar face in an unfamiliar city. He sat there, smiling, as we happily reminisced about the Arlington Ward and our time in Boston. He was a great example to me and to Melanie of quiet dignity, reverence, and meekness. A real man indeed.

    We love you,
    Randy, Melanie, and the boys

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  35. There are no words....you & Jim extended us so much love when our son died. All we are able to do is understand how you must feel. Sending you & Jim hugs, love and many prayers for everyone in your family.

    The Roberson family

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  36. Dear Mary, Jim and Family,

    our hearts are with you during this very sad circumstance.
    We hope and pray that the happy memories of David's life will, with time, overcome the sadness and pain of this past year.
    David was a very fine young man. He set a marvellous example of quiet reverence and dedication for our children while we were in the Arlington Ward. We will be forever grateful to him , and to you, for such example.

    With much love,

    The Sivers Family

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  37. Dear Johnston family:

    Although there is little to be thrilled about at the moment, we can safely say that we are nonetheless so glad to see so many comments and memories here. What a wonderful web of friendship, love, and support that has surfaced in such a difficult time, though not to any surprise for the caliber of people that you are. You have our sincerest condolences and heartfelt prayers. We can think of no one who has earned more the Lord's soothing hand from years of valuable service in His great work and service. From the brief period we knew David, we could tell that he was a very strong and brave man. Above, Cami mentioned Cece being perplexed by David's beard. We loved seeing his beard. It was such a symbol of steadfastness and a statement of resistance against what was burdening him. He will be missed. He no doubt has been well-received.

    With love and utmost regard,

    Stetson and Whitney

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  38. I remember seeing David's skydiving video. It was the first time I'd seen skydiving. I think he did it without telling his parents until after it was over.

    I remember playing shuffleboard with him at the family reunion in Vermont.

    He was playful, funny, and generous with his time.

    David's cousin Charlie

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  39. David gave me a shirt that said "Brig" on the front -- and that means it had to be a custom shirt!

    He didn't talk much, but he was very nice.

    I'm going to miss him.

    David's cousin Brigham.

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  40. It's been coming for some time, and yet it's still a bit of a shock. I have many memories of David, of which I'll share a few.

    When he lived with our family for City Year, he was very kind to Brigham and Charlie, our two youngest boys, and would play until they were done playing -- very patient for an 18 year old.

    For City Year, he was assigned to a rough inner city school in Philadelphia, I think a different environment from anything he'd ever experienced. One day the school made the TV news when one of the teachers was beat up by a group of students. We asked David about it, and he matter of factly told us what happened, no drama whatsoever. He was completely comfortable going back into the heat of battle -- he didn't even think of it as something to worry about.

    He stayed in our un air-conditioned attic and was quite stoic about the heat. I remember going up there to see him reading his many books, moist with the heat. The heat was worth it to him to be able to read in peace.

    David had very well-reasoned perspectives on many topics. Very logical and fair. At first, his decision to join the military felt uncharacteristically rash. At his grandmother's request, I called him to better understand why he appeared to be making an abrupt departure from his plans. Sure enough, his thinking was completely sound, the natural extension of several linked ideas. He was unfazed that his logical decision was surprising to many people -- it was right for him and he knew it. As it turns out, his decision set him up for excellent medical care these many months.

    My final memory will be of my recent visit to Lexington. He was still very much himself -- calm, stoic, reasoned. I miss him.

    David's Uncle David

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  41. Some of my best memories of Dave come from the Johnston family reunions. When I was younger, he was always the cousin playing with my brothers and me, giving us piggy-back rides, and making sure that we were entertained. I remember playing soccer with him in Vermont and watching the world cup with him every four years. I looked forward to seeing him every time I got the chance.

    When my parents told me that Dave would be staying with us, I could not be more excited. Every day he would make time for me no matter how much work he had to do. Whether it was throwing the frisbee outside or playing video games inside, Dave made each one of my days a little bit better.

    Although I never talked to him about it, I have always admired his decision to join the military. I have the greatest respect for those who decide to give themselves up for this great country, and I hope to follow his example. I am grateful for the memories he has given me and the example that he has set.

    Love,
    Caleb

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  42. I am so sorry to hear of David's passing. We love you and your family, Darcy and I have you in our thoughts and prayers. I remember those years being David's Scout master. He was the finest example of honesty and sincere compassion, always teaching and leading the younger boys. We did a winter camp out one year up in NH and David and I decided to try and survive the night next to the fire while the other leaders and scouts were rolled up in snow forts and sleeping bags, (leif Inouye was wearing flip flops). We survived but he and I had to tell each other stories all night and make sure the other one hadn't frozen stiff! I also remember following David up Mt Washington in a blizzard with the scouts and he just didn't stop, he had a steady even pace that kept us all moving forward. He is missed.
    The Beus family

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  43. Dear Mary,

    I read of your son David's death in the Minuteman. I am deeply sorry to hear this news. You, Jim and the rest of your family are in my heart.

    Jonina Schonfeld

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  44. Jim and Mary

    My heart lyes in a place I am yet familiar with. Know our love and prayers are consistently with you. I saw the love you have for each other many times, from your wedding to my wedding. David could not have come from a better family, a better mother or father. It has been a blessing to read about him now and over the years.

    There is a guilt to surviving cancer, I speak for myself, and fear with others who have it. My husband is currently fighting Leukemia CML. Please accept our love and prayers

    The Valentins

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