What we know:
The incision looks good:
Tomorrow, 8 May, they will remove
the tape that’s holding the skin on his abs together and replace the sponge
that’s filling the gap, which is about a foot long (I haven’t measured it, but
trust me, this was major abdominal surgery.)
David hates the calf cuffs:
They squeeze his calves every few
minutes to prevent blood clots in the legs. The pump emits a “puff-duff” sound
of exhalation after every squeeze.
David retains his sense of humor:
When I asked Dr. McDuffee, the
oncology fellow for this month, questions as she came in today, she said she was
planning to get to them after she spoke with David. David piped up: “Please
hold all questions to the end.” Touché.
David retains his deep compassion:
An inexperienced student removed
his nose tube yesterday. I looked up for a second, but looked away when I saw
David’s eyes open wider than I thought anatomically possible. As soon as it was
over, David asked the student: “Was that your
first time?” The student rather sheepishly admitted it was. “It didn’t hurt at all.
It was weird, but it didn’t hurt.” Sick as he is, David’s primary focus was on giving the student a good experience.
David is serene and at peace:
While Dr. Mo, an attending
oncologist, was talking with David, David mentioned that he hadn’t eaten any
solid food for about a week. He was drinking some water at the time. “Do you
know how good a glass of water tastes?” The gratitude, deep appreciation, and serenity
of his savoring each sip was heavenly.
What we don’t know:
:Whether or not the second round
of chemo had an adequate effect:
A bone marrow biopsy Thursday, 8
May should yield preliminary results by Friday afternoon and full results
Monday or Tuesday. What they are hoping for is a smaller percentage of blasts
than last week.
Why David’s legs shook involuntarily
throughout the day yesterday:
It may relate to his electrolytes
being out of kilter after the surgery. They continue to give him electrolytes
and test his blood levels. We haven’t noticed it most of today.
Why David has overactive reflexes:
When the neurologist hits his knee
with the ubiquitous rubber hammer, David’s leg pops up dramatically.
Why David’s speech is slurred:
The neurology team is following
this.
Thank you Mary. Just wanted you to know I read every word, pray several times a day, and am following along as best I can at a distance.
ReplyDeleteOur prayers and thoughts are with your family and David.
ReplyDeleteThe Board cares, hopes and prays for David, yourself, and your family. Hoping for the best outcome from today's biopsy and good news on the full report on Monday/Tuesday. Hoping also that tomorrow's partial report is comforting.
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